Title: The Art of Friendship
Author: Lisa Ireland
Publisher: Pan Macmillan Australia
Publication Date: 24th April 2018
Pages: 400
Format Read: Paperback
Source: Publisher supplied.
Blurb
We all expect our friendships from childhood to last forever...
Libby
and Kit have been best friends ever since the day 11-year-old Kit
bounded up to Libby's bedroom window. They've seen each other through
first kisses, bad break-ups and everything in-between. It's almost 20
years since Libby moved to Sydney, but they've remained close, despite
the distance and the different paths their lives have taken.
So
when Libby announces she's moving back to Melbourne, Kit is overjoyed.
They're best friends - practically family - so it doesn't matter that
she and Libby now have different ...well, different everything, actually, or so it seems when they're finally living in the same city again.
Or does it?
My thoughts
Lisa’s last
book, The Shape of Us, has been shortlisted for the AusRom Today Reader’s
Choice Award for book of the year, and Lisa has been shortlisted for the Best
Established author. The Shape of Us was also in my top 10 reads of 2017.
The Art of
Friendship wasn’t exactly how I imagined it to be. I thought it was going to be
a BFF, follow their lives, a bust up then HEA. Basically it was along those
lines but so much more. It was a look at the different types of friendships we
have during our lives. Friends that come and go and those that we have known
forever, these know all our secrets. Sometimes you follow different paths, as
is the case with Libby and Kit, but there is so much history that binds you. Friends
come and go, people change, and your best friend from childhood and your teens
may not connect with you in adulthood. Is there a time when you should let
these friendships go?
“There’s something about friends we form in
childhood that makes them hard to let go, even when we no longer have anything
in common.”
The
narrative is written in both Libby and Kit’s POV so the reader gets a very good
idea of how both women are thinking of the friendship and each other. However,
the main focus is on Libby as she moves through different friendship groups and
how these friendships affect her relationship with Kit.
Watching their
relationship was painful with the back and forward bitterness and Libby’s
overreacting to situations. I was really hoping the girls would work it out as
lifelong friendships are so precious.
Ireland
conveys through her story that some friendships are for a common reason, some
only for a season and others are a bond that traverses time and distance.
The Art of
Friendship will make you stop, think, ponder and question every friendship you’ve
ever had.
Lisa Ireland
came across this idea of friendships and how they impact our life after seeing
an article on ghosting, which is
apparently a real thing in this overly connected world of social media.
Ghosting: (noun)
The practice
of ending a personal relationship with someone suddenly and without explanation
withdrawing from all communication.
Thank you to
Pan Macmillan Australia for my copy for review purposes.
Content:
infrequent coarse language, implied sex.
My rating 4/5 stars 🌟🌟🌟🌟
About the author
Lisa Ireland lives on the Victorian coast with her husband and three sons. After working for many years as a primary school teacher, Lisa is now a full-time writer. When she's not writing, she can be found drinking coffee with friends or wandering along the beach with her extremely disobedient but totally lovable dog, Lulu.
This review is part of the Book Lover Book Reviews Aussie author challenge
and book #13 in the Australian Women Writers Challenge